I installed the unofficial 18.04.3 on a Pi4 B (4GB) because docker is not yet supported in 19.10 and I needed it for hassio and tried also KDE (installing the Kubuntu desktop with sudo apt-get install Kubuntu-desktop) that is my usual go-to for other devices however I'm not sure if I'm missing some package/driver or if it's just that I use it with xrdp or my MicroSD but whenever I try to use the DE even for just finding a file I can't find via terminal/SSH (the pi is not connected to a display) it feels really slow and unresponsive (the "start" button menu takes a good 3-5 seconds to load even just the outline of the window) so I wanted to replace it with something lighter without the need to reinstall everything, is there a way for me to remove the current DE and replace it with something like xfce/lxde without looking for every single package that kubuntu installed? I'm a bit of a newbie with those commands on ubuntu (especially on a RPi) so I don't really know if it's possible of it'd break everything
Thank you in advance