one answer to this is that the headset might switch its connection profile. If your audio system doesn't open the microphone, then newer Bluetooth headsets probably will choose A2DP (Advanced Audio Distribution Profile) as audio connection. This greatly improves the audio quality but negates the option to use the Bluetooth connection for the microphone at the same time.
If you open the microphone channel it has to drop back to a telephone quality headset mode. This might cause a short disconnection in the audio transmission.
If I don't listen to music but have to attend meetings where I need the microphone from time to time, I always have an application like the control panel or mumble running in background to ensure, the mic line remains open.