I had browse for this issue in the forums, but the answers I found are not concrete or refers to older version of ubuntu.
I am using ubuntu 14 (3.13.0-35-generic #62-Ubuntu x86_64 x86_64 x86_64) and the RAM usage usually reach the 100%. even with a just-booted system, it is more than 50%.
is this normal in this version of ubuntu? for a 4 GB RAM machine it would be better to switch to lubuntu or other desktop with less RAM requirements?
$ free -h
total used free shared buffers cached
Mem: 3.9G 2.3G 1.6G 23M 318M 1.0G
-/+ buffers/cache: 1.0G 2.9G
Swap: 4,0G 0B 4,0G