12.10 → 14.04 is not a supported release upgrade route. The only working route would be 12.10 → 13.04 → 13.10 → 14.04, I think. So you'd either have to perform three release upgrades, of which every one could break your system, or you start anew with 14.04.
Whether you actually need to upgrade is up to you. If you don't want to install any too recent software and the newest features, I don't think you need the upgrade.
However, there's still the security aspect. Ubuntu is a rather safe system (compared to Windows, where pretty much everything is safer), but rather safe doesn't mean absolutely safe. I can't predict how sensible the files on your server are or how you estimate the chance of an attack on your server, but no server is 100% safe. If your server is in an environment with a firewall-protected router, I'd say you're safe enough.
So, again, you have to tell whether you need the upgrade. But if you decide that you need it, the best way is a full reinstallation (Back up your data first!)