The Toshiba C50D-A-133 laptop has an AMD E1-210 which only runs at 1GHz, not that great by modern standards. It is normal with a laptop with a slow CPU like that for the Ubuntu Software Center window to dim to gray when there are multiple packages queued up waiting to be installed. An application window turns gray when the processor is busy and the application is waiting for the processor to respond, and then after some time has elapsed, it times out and the window dims. A gray window caused by a timeout that dims and then goes back to normal won't cause any damage to your system.
There is something that you can do about it. If you find the gray-looking window in the Ubuntu software Center annoying, you can install multiple packages from the terminal using a single command of the form:
sudo apt-get install first-package second-package other-packages
...where you substitute the package names of the packages in the command with a space between each package name. If you install packages from the terminal, the terminal window will never turn gray and you will not have any problem with the window freezing, forcing you to force quit the Ubuntu Software Center and then try to install some packages that were at the end of the queue again. This is sometimes necessary, because when you force quit the Ubuntu Software Center the Ubuntu Software Center sometimes removes packages that have not started being installed from the queue, so you have to search for those packages and click the Install button to install them a second time.
Once you get past the obstacle of updating your system and installing packages, you should expect to have fewer problems with applications windows dimming to a gray screen or not responding. On a laptop with a slow processor like yours, you may find it necessary when using GIMP to save your image in the middle of the job, close GIMP and then reopen the saved image in GIMP and continue the image editing from where you left off. Another tip for preventing application windows from getting gray screens is to avoid multitasking other applications when running a processor-intensive task.