Open Synaptic Package Manager. Search for pcmanfm. After finding it, mark it for complete removal. Apply the change and wait for it to be removed. Your File Manager should be Nautilus which I believe is the default file manager. If you want Lubuntu, your best bet is to download the newest LTS version which is 14.04. Back up all of your data to an external source (hard drive or USB thumb drive). Make a bootable CD or thumb drive and use it to boot your computer. Install it on your computer. If there are things that you do not understand you should ask. For instance after you download the ISO you need to check the hash (MD5Sum) of the download. Why do you need to get the new version? Because Lubuntu 12.04, 12.10, 13.04, and 13.10 have all reached their End Of Life and are no longer supported. Ubuntu 12.04 and Edbuntu 12.04 which you apparently have installed are supported until sometime in April 2017. Your choice, (1) you can keep what you got after un-installing PCManFM (2) you can download and install Lubuntu 14.04.