I want to use my old netbook for a Wordpress server (2Gb ram, 1.6GHz CPU), and I want it to be as resource and energy efficient as possible. I have already tried Ubuntu Server, Lubuntu and Ubuntu MATE on it, and they all use around 200mb RAM when idle (while I expected the server to use less).
Also, I am kind of new to Linux, so I would like to have the distribution, with which I will have no problem finding help how to use. So here is what I want:
1) Which one would be best for performance, the Server version, or something with Desktop environment? I want the server to be able to handle hundreds of users to the website.
2) Does the RAM memory usage when idle determines which distro works best on my system?
EDIT: Here is a comparison of Ubuntu Server, Ubuntu MATE and Lubuntu, freshly installed and updated on a Virtual Machine.